Monday, April 13, 2020

The Phone Call (for John and Helga)


Picked up the phone and called an old friend
on Easter Sunday. Old friend I say because
he is 93 and I’m 73; old friend I say because
we have known each other for over 40-years.

Now John has quite an imagination. Even at
a much younger age, he had a certain knack
for embellishing situations and stories. Me
and my excuse is old age where my details
of the past tend to fade. Oh, when recounting
a particular story, I’ll admit a twist and turn
now and again may come into play.

Anyway, it was one of those rapid-fire exchanges,
each of us trying to catch up with the now and then.
Neither of us having the patience anymore for a
lengthy drawn-out phone conversation.

John made a point to make his feelings known
about life in this new age. Of course the pandemic
virus was briefly discussed—worst thing to happen
to the country since World War II, John recalled.
Back then, you knew who the enemy was. You could
point the finger and see who your adversary was.
Nowadays, this damned virus is invisible...terrible!

And by the way, John went on, people just aren’t
pretty anymore, all those tattoos and funny hairdos.
Ugly! And I chimed in with the smart phone phe-
nomenon—people on the street, everywhere you
go, indoors and out, people glued to and totally
engrossed with their cell phones.

All-in-all, I’d say, John and I had one of those typical,
old-man, gripe sessions. We did cover a few shared
fond memories, though, of family outings and holiday
get-togethers, probably a little sweeter now looking
back on them now than they were in actuality.

Some of the finer details, John and I recalled a bit
differently. But that’s okay. That’s what old men
tend to do. In our own minds, we know we’re both
right.

I did get to say hi to Helga, John’s wife, also a good
friend for over 40-years. Helga is in her 80s. She let
John do most of the talking. They have been married
a long time, and she knows John is good at that.

                              -30-

Chris Hanch 4-12-2020


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