Sunday, December 5, 2021

The When, Where and Why of Me

 


As we age, remembering events in our lives is


what old folks such as I do most every day. To


stimulate time and place in my past life, I am


fortunate to have taken many photographs


highlighting people and places I have known.



I have arranged my thoughts into epochs, periods


of time defining the when, where and why of my


illustrious history. For example: My Army days


were from November 1964 through November


1967; I was married to my first wife with whom


I had two children for 17-years from 1966 to


1983; I lived in Albuquerque from 1991 into


1992; I moved to Denver in 1992, married my


second wife in 1993 and lived there until 2015


a year after she died...and on and on.



Of course there are other dates and events I


have compartmentalized where I moved about,


changed jobs and such. I won’t go into


the gory details here and bore you with my


addictive drug and alcohol binges and


various rehab and therapy episodes.



Suffice it to say, when I have my mental


journeys into the past nearly seventy-five


years of my life, I can pretty well define


where I was chronologically at any given


time.



Needless to say, this process gives me a


framework for how far I have advanced or


digressed over the years. Now of course


I am not 100% pin-point accurate all the


time. But as an old friend of mine use to


say: “Like horse shoes and hand grenades,


close is good enough.”



At least in my mind’s eye, the when, where


and why of the real me is not hard to find.




                               -30-


Chris Hanch 12-5-2021

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