Sunday, October 10, 2021

Something About Uncle Ray (In Memorial)

 


Uncle Ray sat in his chair sipping


his Beefeater Gin Martini and listening


to me tell of my trip to Germany. He


wanted to know about what I had seen


and done on my recent vacation overseas.



I wondered if it brought up memories


of his military tour of duty there, and


his unit’s march across that country


after enduring the horrendous Battle


of the Bulge in Belgium.



He was one of the lucky GIs who had


survived the bloodbath and bitter cold


and snow in 1942.



Ray let me do most of the talking as


he lit up his cigarette and asked his


wife, Josephine, for another drink.



I was sure his wife of over twenty


five years had heard his horrific war


stories before. But that was then


and this was now.



Ray was safe and sound in his


suburban home surrounded by


his five lovely children (all


grown), basking in the comforts


of his secure suburban home,


stable and prosperous with his


profession at the prestigious


Chicago investment firm.



Even though I spoke of a


courteous and accommodating


people, the quaint villages and


stout beer, I suspected Uncle


Ray couldn’t help comparing


his bitter experience with my


delightful jaunt overseas.



He never offered to share those


biter times which I was relatively


sure still haunted his mind to this


day.



I knew something of post traumatic


stress syndrome which would plague


so many veterans of war for the rest


of their days.



I could see it in his eyes, hear it in


his deafening silence. Even Uncle


Ray’s third gin martini, and the


thousands which would eventually


follow could ever wash that horrific


indelible stain away.



                 -30-


Chris Hanch 10-10-2021




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